I’m Jay Cookingham, and I wear many hats – author, speaker, pastor, and podcaster. My passion lies in guiding men towards discovering their true identity and purpose. Founding Strategic Fathering Ministries has been a fulfilling journey, aimed at fostering deeper connections between men and our Father God.

Through Strategic Fathering Ministries, my aim is simple: to uplift, equip, and ignite men through the teachings of Scripture and my own walk with Christ. My devotional, “Sonship: Restoring a Man’s Identity and Purpose,” delves into the heart of God, urging men to embrace their roles as His sons.

In “Uncaged: Living a Life of Freedom,” I delve into the liberating power of forgiveness, urging readers to release past hurts and bitterness. Sharing personal anecdotes and profound insights, I equip readers with practical tools to break free from the cages of unforgiveness. (Also a 4 week study guide)

My literary journey doesn’t stop there. I’ve authored “End of Year & New Beginnings: A 4-Week Reflection Guide” and “ROAR: Rise – Overcome – Advance – Rejoice,” a daily journal reflection guide. And just for fun, “Bad Sheep: The Adventures of Lambo and Chop“, a pun filled comic book.

Every day, through my “ManUp Moment” podcast, I offer a quick shot of inspiration and encouragement for men navigating their faith journey. Covering topics from relationships to purpose to forgiveness, I provide practical advice infused with biblical wisdom.

As of January 2013, I’ve been honored to serve as a pastor at Bridge Builders Community Church in Hyde Park, NY, nurturing the wonderful souls within our congregation.

One of my passions is speaking into men’s lives and I have been honored to speak nationally at Iron Sharpens Iron men events and numerous men’s conferences/retreats/events closer to home throughout the Hudson Valley.

My beloved wife Christine was my partner in life for 37 fulfilling years until her passing in 2019. Together, we’ve been blessed with seven children and one grandson (so far).

Overall, I’m deeply committed to advocating for men’s spiritual growth and restoration. My books and podcast serve as potent tools for men striving to live out their God-given identities and purposes to the fullest.